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Say it. When you say the words "I Love You," do they carry it with them the desire to show someone you love them or do they carry it with them is it what you want to feel? And when you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person
Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are; and realize how they could also love you back just as well.
Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for loving's sake. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
HOW DO YOU KNOW A GUY LIKES YOU?!
It's not always easy to tell when a guy falls in love with you. Men are often mysterious about their feelings and aren't always comfortable simply stating the obvious. As women we sometimes have to use our natural instinct to determine just how the man in our life feels. If you are wondering whether your fellow is as emotionally invested in the relationship as you are, there are a few signs you should be on the lookout for.
When a guy falls in love with you, you become the most important thing in the world to him. You'll notice that he'll become much more concerned with your happiness and just the day-to-day happenings of your life. When a man is crazy about you he'll want you to share details of your life and he'll find even the most mundane things interesting. If the man you are seeing would much rather talk about himself than you, he may not be that into you.
Another of the clear signs that a man is experiencing deeper feelings for you is that he'll work hard to spend time with you. When a guy falls in love with you he'll move heaven and earth to be with you. Regardless of how many hours he worked or what time he has to get up tomorrow, he'll want to see you. He won't care whether it's to go out for dinner or to stay in and watch television. As long as he can be with you, he'll be content.
You also want to pay close attention to how your man talks about the future. When a guy falls in love with you he'll often subtly refer to a future that includes you. Listen for him to use the words "us" or "we" more often. That's because, in his mind, he wants you with him, close to him in the future. If a man is constantly saying "I" or "me" when he's planning things, he's still self-centered and may just not be ready to open up his heart to love yet.
If you're really unsure about how he feels about you, there are specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. If you are convinced he is the one there are things you can do to ensure he only has eyes for you.
sometimes love can bring you to somewhere,
and sometimes to nowhere!
